Pain In The You Know What!

All I have to say is never, ever, ever, never, ever have kids with just anyone. Have safe sex, this is important advice. I'm telling you the father of my son is off his rocker. He thinks he knows everything and that his way is the only way. Well guess what I'm not gonna waste my time argueing with him all the time. I do things my way. He thinks my 4 year old needs to sleep 12-14 hours a night, I'm sorry I do not agree. I think that 9-11 hours is plenty. Somebody please tell me if I am wrong. I need some serious advice on how to deal with my situation. He is making me crazy. I feel sorry for other people out there trying to deal with there lives. It's all a huge mess.